Neutral Milk Hotel

I was just talking to somebody about the possiblity of Jeff Mangum returning, and if he did where he would play, and for how many nights in a row, etc... That got me looking at the well-organized Neutral Milk Hotel gigography. I didn't realize NMH played so few small shows (especially considering what a large impact they had). They played their last NYC show at Bowery Ballroom in 1998 (did they headline?), and their 3rd to last NYC show was as an OPENER for Olivia Tremor Control at Brownies (what was the capacity of Brownies? 150?). The NY Times reviewed it.

17 July - Knitting Factory w/ Stephin Merritt & Butterglory
01 August - Knitting Factory w/ The Supreme Dicks & the Air Traffic Controllers
06 September - Westbeth Theatre w/ Guv'ner, Spent, Portatastic, & Lambchop
20 October- Brownies w/ The Olivia Tremor Control & Clem Snide **
** the October 20th show is actually "Jeff Mangum with the Pulsars"

25 April - Knitting Factory w/ The Olivia Tremor Control & Alva
28 April - Brownies w/ The Olivia Tremor Control

07 March - Knitting Factory w/ Elf Power & the Music Tapes
25 July - Bowery Ballroom w/ Elf Power, Of Montreal, & Marshmallow Coast

Who was at one of these shows, or any NMH show for that matter?